curatED FRIendship matchmaking

meet your other significant others

Only in San Francisco

no profiles

No prompts, no staged photos, no awkward or mundane openers.

Personalized

We recommend high quality 1:1 introductions tailored just for you.

100% Free

No signup or monthly fees. Get early access now.

HOW it workS

1. Tell us about you

Fill out the questionnaire to help us learn more about you and what you're looking for in friendship.

2. Meet & Greet

Every potential member joins a 20 minute video call with one of our curators. We’ll take a deep dive into who you are so we can hand-select someone personalized for you.

3. MEET YOUR Match

Sit back and relax as we hunt for your perfect match. If there isn’t anyone we’re sure you’ll enjoy meeting, we won’t give you a match. The result? A friend you won’t wait to meet.

Friendship is a love story. Different from romantic or filial love, it’s its own unique love story.

— Esther Perel

FAQs

  • Nope! This is completely free. We’re launching this in beta and it will be offered at no cost for the rest of 2024.

  • Every member goes through the same process of filling out our questionnaire and completing the meet and greet with us. Matches are made based on two factors: 1. Interests: what are your hobbies, what do you nerd out about, what gets you excited? 2. Values: why are you interested in or excited about these things, what’s your motivation, what about these things drive you? There is no perfect point or scale system we use to pair you, but we believe if we can get a good understanding of you, then we can give you a good match.

  • It depends. We're very intentional about curating your match and we will only introduce you to someone if we're confident you will hit it off. While the time you sit in our match pool may vary, rest assured, when you get a match, they will be high quality and tailored for you.

  • We won’t ask you to make a profile, we won’t make you answer broad prompts, and best of all, no awkward openers and text conversations. We do all of that work for you to give you personalized matches. When you meet your match, you can be sure you will have a meaningful connection built off of common interests and values.

  • We are currently only serving San Francisco to ensure we are focused on curating high quality matches. We hope to expand as our time and resources allow.

  • Shoot us a note: hello@findmyhummingbird.com

We asked our friends to describe their most treasured friendships in one word, they said…

Presence

Secure

Humor

Belonging

Trust

Connection

Presence • Secure • Humor • Belonging • Trust • Connection •

Find Your Hummingbird

People with strong social connections are generally happier and healthier. Find your community, find your belonging, find your hummingbird today.